Finial Goodbye to Brenda Gomnick
Posted: Tuesday, June 10, 2008
by Herb A
USA Marketing Solutions
My life is going on but I feel like Brenda's is final coming to its finality. Once the monument is in place and all her friends and family say goodbye that's it.
That day-that week will be a roughest week for me. It will be a time in my life that I will feel my loneliness the most. I will never forget her. My love for her will grow even in her demise. She was and always will be my one and only true love.
Even though I can't hold her or hear her laugh any longer I will hold my memories of Brenda very close to my hart. She will be a part of me wherever my journey leads.
This is a journey I thought I would never have to take alone. I thought that we would both live to a ripe old age or that I would go first.
Brenda was my support my partner in life and love. We lived for each other, now there is no one to live for. I have my friends and family along with my grandchildren but it's not the same as having Brenda. She was the light in my life. The reason for me living. I will remember her child like audited on life. The way things came out of her mouth that made everyone laugh.
When Brenda was around no one sat with a long face. She would have you feeling good about being around her. Brenda was magical in every way.
Brenda was an angle who walked the earth we us for a moment in time, now I will have to let her go. I thank you for the time you have given me to enjoy you.
Until we meet again my angel.
Rest in peace my bright eyes.
This will be my last article about Brenda and myself.
Brenda G Gomnick wife, mother, a woman of great worth to all and a fantastic Grandmother. You are greatly missed already and your memory will live on forever.
Help me keep Brenda's name alive
Below are links that you can donate funds in Brenda's name.
Thank you
Herb A Krantz
Children's Hospital of Philadelphia
Chop Hospital Phila Pa.
http://www.chop.edu/consumer/index.jsp
St Jude
http://www.stjude.org/stjude/v/index.jspvgnextoid=f2bfab46cb118010VgnVCM1000000e2015acRCRD
Stem Cell Research
Michael J Fox
http://www.michaeljfox.org/
Christopher reeve
http://www.christopherreeve.org/site/c.geIMLPOpGjF/b.899265/k.CC03/Home.htm
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Top-level comments on this article: (1 total)hi herb, i am sorry for your pain. i felt similarly when my mom passed away (I have never been able to say die) 19 years ago. it was torture, as we were very close. i miss her everyday, but have gotten used to talking to her either out loud or in my head, it doesn't matter, i believe she hears in both ways. i know she is protecting me and guiding me along this path of life. i have pictures of her by my computer where i spend most of my time, so i see her everyday. i can honestly tell you it does get easier. i never could even say mom without crying, and eventually, i was able to talk about her without tearing up, although there are days of despair when i cry my eyes out to her and my dad. good luck to you, the love you get from your family will help heal your heart. best regards, sue thomThank you for you kind words. They are greatly appericated. I have brenda's picture hanging on my living room wall next to my TV. Her picture is also on my desk top on my computer on my desk and upstairs in her office. Brenda's memory will put a smile on my face while the tears flow from my eyes. The memory of Brenda can only be happy ones. I guess that's why it hurts so much. We use to kid around about if she died first. I told her that I would never get married again because no one could make me laugh or feel like she did. It's the truth, Brenda it on hell of an act to follow. My hart and soul belong to her. Thanks again.
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